Reykjavík Pride 2015: “Nice to do some good!”

Almost a third of the nation shows up to watch the Pride Parade every year. Despite the obvious support, there is still prejudice against queer people in Iceland, and there is still need to campaign for queer rights, says Eva María Þórarinsdóttir Lange, the chairman of Reykjavík Pride. This year‘s theme is queer health.

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Eva María Þórarinsdóttir Lange, the chairman of Reykjavík Pride.

Reykjavík Pride will take place between August 4th to August 9th this year. Planning is well on its way and today, Thursday, the Festival Guide, a magazine including all of the Pride‘s events as well as interesting stories from the fight for queer rights, will be introduced during a big party in it‘s honor.

„The Festival Guide is really the bible of Reykjavík Pride,“ says Eva María. „It‘s packed with our history and we use the guide to introduce our program and also to shed some light on the issues being dealt with in the educational events during Pride.“

Eva María is no stranger to the planning of Reykjavik Pride as this is her third year as chairman. „My girlfriend, Birna, was involved in education for Samtökin ’78 (e. The National Queer Organization) and in queer matters in general. Some of it rubbed off and once I begun I couldn‘t stop,“ she says, asked about how she first became involved in Reykjavík Pride half a decade ago.

„In the end, we felt that the parade might not be the best place for BDSM to step out in public, in light of the aforementioned reaction, accusations and resistance from the queer community.“

„The Pride has changed in that time, in accordance with changes in the society. Twenty years ago we were fighting to keep our jobs if we came out of the closet, but today we have come further.“

A healthy focus

The theme for this year‘s Pride is health, in a broad sense. „We‘ll talk about physical health, mental health and everything connected with health. We will look at the health care system and how groups like intersex people and trans people are treated within the health sector. There is a bit of criticism on the lack of knowledge in the health care system,“ Eva María tells us.

„We‘ll try to examine specialized healthcare and related services, tailored to the needs of these minorities, but also visit familiar subjects like HIV, the mental issues associated with coming out, what people feel like when coming out in schools and so on. We‘ll also talk about sexual violence and how it‘s dealt with and whether sufferers get any help and so on. We‘re discussing the topic from many different angles, but the focus is on issues that relate directly to queer people.“

„Reykjavík  Pride is not without it‘s criticism, even  though we claim to live in a society where most people are very accepting," says Eva María. In that respect she points out that a Canadian documentary called Beyond gay: the politics of pride will be shown at Pride.  In it director Bob  Christie looks at pride parades all over  the world and the different reaction they  get. After  the documentary there will be panel discussion with the board of Reykjavík  Pride, Bob Christie, genderologists and  university teachers, where participants will try to answer the question: „Why do we need pride parades?“ Photo shows members of LGBTQI sports club Styrmir.
„Reykjavík Pride is not without it‘s criticism, even though we claim to live in a society where most people are very accepting,” says Eva María. In that respect she points out that a Canadian documentary called Beyond gay: the politics of pride will be shown. In it director Bob Christie looks at different reaction prides get all over the world. A panel discussion will follow where Christie, the board of Reykjavík Pride, genderologists and university teachers, will try to answer the question: „Why do we need pride parades?“ The Embassy of Canada in Reykjavík helped organise the event.
Photo shows members of sports club Styrmir.

Reykjavík Pride is a six-day celebration, packed with events, including a series of lectures and other educational events everyone can take part in. „In the beginning the emphasis will be on events of a quieter nature, a lot of educational events, sport events, blood donations and field games. As it gets closer to the weekend though, the tempo increases, and so does the partying. Reykjavík Pride is different from other prides in the sense that education plays a big role, and that‘s quite unique,“ Eva María explains.

Asked for recommendations for some of the events that are included every year, she is in no shortage of answers. „The opening ceremony has been one of the main events since Pride became an organized festival. It takes part on Thursday and it‘s almost like a family reunion for queer people. It‘s the evening when everyone comes together, from twenty to eighty years old, and every year they play Somewhere Over the Rainbow and I Am What I Am. I know it may sound like a cliché, but it‘s a beautiful moment. Everyone has something in common and they meet to celebrate being the way they are.“

She also mentions the final dance, after the parade on Saturday, and the family entertainment on Sunday. „This year we‘ve teamed up with Circus Iceland for a family event during the day and then an over 18 event in the evening.“ Another thing is the cruise on Friday night. „It‘s a little funny because Iceland isn‘t really known for warm weather but in many other countries there is a big culture of gay cruises. There it‘s mostly well-shaped men in Speedos, but here it‘s more like red noses and rain coats going on an hour-long boat trip. But it‘s really good fun and the company is excellent!“

The loud minority

Despite the majority of Icelanders being supportive of queer rights, each year during the days following Reykjavík Pride, a loud minority publicly condemns the Pride, and in particular the parade. The organizers have even been accused by this minority of harming children by exposing them do indecency and unnatural lifestyle. These critics also claim that all gays are child molesters.

„A friend of mine has a young son and in the wake of all this he asked: ‚Does that mean my uncle is a child molester?‘
Eva María is worried about the message haters are sending to those who are young and vulnerable. „A friend of mine has a young son and in
the wake of all this he asked: ‚Does that
mean my uncle is a child molester?‘

Eva María shakes her head. „When one critic starts, others follow as part of the pack. My loved ones have asked me if I take these kind of comments personally, if they hurt me. They don’t. Not personally. What hurts me is that they reach those who are vulnerable. We, the people in the frontline have learned this is just a part of the job, and we see a lot of it. Only a small part finds its way to the media. But there are those who are not ready to hear those things. For example, young kids struggling with coming out. When they hear this it becomes so easy to back out.“

Eva María points out that prejudice can appear in many ways. „I sometimes talk about „civilized“ prejudice. When people say ‚I‘ve got nothing against gays, but do they really have to be showing themselves off like this?‘. And then you have other kinds of prejudice, disgusting prejudice. Like when the Russian orthodox church bought an ad in a newspaper on Pride Saturday, basically saying that some people will burn in hell, including those who sleep with someone of the same-sex.“

However opening up the discussion with claims like these is not all bad, according to Eva María. „Sometimes you just have to see the good in things. The man who’s made most of the damning accusations of Pride has never seen the Pride parade, which is quite peculiar. One example; he talked a lot about men bearing their bottoms, but the only two men bearing their buttocks in the last years have been straight men, pushed in to the Parade, during stag parties. So, really, they were there to make fun of us and belittling our struggle. So the accusations came from the wrong direction. Personally I don’t mind seeing a buttock or two but I’d rather it be an expression of some aspect of queer life than a demeaning gesture from a straight stag.

The same man, the one who made those accusations, then tried to sue me personally, but had no luck because he didn‘t have a case. It‘s been an eye-opening experience. You think it‘s so good to live in Iceland because everyone is easy-going and accepting, and then all of a sudden it backlashes and that really makes you see how far we still have to go. The victory isn’t won. We can never stop being on guard for our rights.“

Criticism from the queer community

Surprisingly, Reykjavík Pride hasn‘t only been criticized by homophobes. Within the queer community, some find the parade to be too inclusive, letting scouts and intersex people join the march. Others find the parade to be too exclusive, as the national BDSM club was denied permission to take part. Still others claim that those taking part in the parade can not seek grants or funding for their acts, as all grants and donation must go to the Pride itself.

„That‘s not true. Anyone can financially support an act or a float in the parade,“ Eva María answers. „But the supporters or funders can not be visible. There is no advertising in the parade. Other pride organizers salute us for it. Our opinion is that as long as we can keep advertising out of the parade, then the focus is on the right place.
In return, we offer small grants for materials for those who want. We also help provide a sound system. If anyone wants to seek further sponsorship that is just fine, but no sponsorship advertising is allowed.

In other countries, companies literally pay to be in the parade, and that‘s how the parade is funded. There‘s a fundamental difference in the type of parade you get then, instead of just having the grassroot.“

„Everything around the Pride is done by volunteers, to keep the Pride pure and from the heart. That‘s the essence of the Pride and nobody gets paid. Even the artists entertaining on the big stage after the parade, donate their work for the cause of human rights. The Pride is not a money machine and countless volunteer hours lie behind every Pride," says Eva María.
„Everything around the Pride is done by volunteers, to keep the Pride pure and from the heart. That‘s the essence of the Pride and nobody gets paid. Even the artists entertaining on the big stage after the parade, donate their work for the cause of human rights. The Pride is not a money machine and countless volunteer hours lie behind every Pride,” says Eva María.

As for who‘s allowed to march in the parade and not, Eva María says it depends on what you‘re marching for and how you do it.

„Take the scouts, for example. Five years ago I wouldn‘t have dreamt about having scouts in the parade. You hear these extreme cases from the US, about the Scout movement being homophobic. So I thought it was really cool when Icelandic scouts wanted to send out a message against the treatment of queer scouts in the US by saying they are supporters and not homophobic. For sending out such a strong message, they are included in Pride. The message you want to send with participating must be clear.“

Last year, the national BDSM club applied to join the parade but wasn‘t granted permission. „There are five of us on the board of Reykjavík Pride and it was a split decision. In the end, we felt that the parade might not be the best place for BDSM to step out in public, in light of the aforementioned reaction, accusations and resistance from the queer community. Instead we offered them to host an educational event, which they will do during this year‘s Pride.

My personal opinion is that the parade is really vulnerable to prejudice and opinion and it’s constantly evolving. The main goal is to show up proud celebrating our culture and making our demands for human rights visible. So we try to come to thought-out decisions when granting access to the Parade. For example, Icelanders are a little behind when it comes to sensitivity about race. „Blackface“ wasn‘t considered a big deal in Iceland a few years ago when we banned it from the parade. At one time the Trans community was excluded and until last year we had no Intersex presence. Things are changing and evolving and the definition of ‘queer’ is ever-expanding.

„Icelanders are a little behind when it comes to sensitivity about race. „Blackface“ wasn‘t considered a big deal in Iceland a few years ago when we banned it from the parade.“

Including intersex people in the parade is clearly something Eva María makes no apologies for. „Reykjavík Pride was the first pride in the world to welcome intersex people and as a result the intersex people in Iceland have been leading in educating other prides. The next pride to include the group will be in Copenhagen and the lead person for that is our Kitty Anderson, president of Intersex-Iceland.
The campaigning for human rights is changing, as society changes. A few years ago Samtökin ’78 was called „The Icelandic organization for gays and lesbians“, today it also includes bisexual, asexual, pansexual, transgender and intersex people.“

Cries when she sees the grandmothers

Reykjavík‘s Pride Festival Guide will be available from today, July 16th, but those wanting to take part in the parade can still apply. „Registration is open until the 1st of August. It‘s vital that people register so that we can make sure everyone has a slot, and give us time to help out in case they need a sound system and so on. There are already many wonderful acts listed, but those who want to join can apply on the Pride‘s website.

Due to the enormous public involvement in Reykjavík Pride, it‘s sometimes dubbed as a family entertainment. Eva María emphasizes that the idea behind it is quite different. „Pride parades are a part of the fight for equal rights, both historically and today. What happened in Iceland is that we live in such a small society that if you know someone who is queer, you love someone who is queer. Automatically you become a supporter and a spokesperson for our free existence and inclusion. I think this is what defines Iceland and this is why we see grandmothers holding their grandchildren in their arms, while waving the rainbow flag. And that‘s something that gets my crying every single time. Without fail.“

Despite spending countless hours organizing Reykjavík Pride, along with as many as 100 other volunteers, Eva María at the young age of 34, still has time to run a successful business. She says her days as a DJ have come to and end though, due to lack of time.
„I‘m a bit hyperactive. I often ask myself why I‘m doing this, but during the Pride‘s high peak, I know why. It‘s also fun to be an active participant in the community, being part of history and doing some good. It‘s very rewarding!“

Even though the program for Reykjavík Pride includes around 30 events, in addition to off-venue events, to the majority of Icelanders, Pride is all about the parade. It‘s estimated that around 100,000 people watch the parade every year.
Even though the program for Reykjavík Pride includes around 30 events, in addition to off-venue events, to the majority of Icelanders, Pride is all about the parade. It‘s estimated that around 100,000 people watch the parade every year.

Main photo: Eva María and girlfriend Birna Hrönn Björnsdóttir at Reykjavík Pride.

The Hamburger Factory
- gourmet burgers

Ok. You’re in Iceland. Most likely for the first time.

You will probably bathe in the Blue Lagoon and take a road trip to Gullfoss and
Geysir. That’s all well and good. But neither Geysir’s nor waterfalls are
something you eat. That’s why we have 15 brilliant and creative hamburgers at
The Hamburger Factory. And they are all perfectly square. Don’t miss out on
Iceland’s most beloved hamburgers.

The Hamburger Factory is Iceland’s most innovative gourmet burger chain.
Packed with burger-craving customers since it’s opening in 2010, among the
regulars is Iceland’s best known fisherman, Eric Clapton. In our restaurants we
welcome tourists with our newspaper like menu and smiley service. They are
packed with fun items and memorable connections to Icelandic pop culture.

Locations:

Omnom Chocolate
- award-winning chocolate maker

    Omnom Chocolate is an Icelandic craft chocolate company based in Reykjavík. We produce handcrafted chocolate from organic cacao beans sourced ethically and sustainably. We’ve developed direct relationships to create premium chocolate with fine flavor cacao beans.

    Our creative flavors are carefully crafted by meticulous chocolate makers. The cacao beans are roasted, winnowed, ground, and refined into melty-smooth chocolate.

    Omnom’s process is one of constant exploration, invention, and experimentation. If it doesn’t please us, if something isn’t absolutely delicious, there’s no reason to be doing it. So, we always start with our taste buds and follow our instincts. Our team searches for the finest ingredients in the world and new ways to improve chocolate. This obsession with knowing where our ingredients come from has led us around the corner to dairy farms in the Icelandic countryside and all the way to rainforest cacao farms of Nicaragua.

    In only a few short years, we’ve grown from our 50 sq. m. petrol station space and become an award-winning chocolate maker. Now, with our headquarters in 101 Reykjavík, our chocolate is sent out around Iceland and all over the world.

    At the end of the day, our goal is to make chocolate.

     

    Alfred’s Apartments
    - gay owned an operated

      Alfred’s Apartments and Alfred’s Studios is a gay operated and owned accommodation in the heart of Reykjavik.

      Alfred’s Apartments offers spacious apartments at a good price located just around the corner from Laugavegur shopping street. You can choose the apartment starting from a Small Studio for 2 persons to a large One-bedroom Apartment with balcony for 5 persons.

      Their staff will ensure your comfort during the stay and provide the most updated information about the city, gay and night life in Reykjavik.

      Each apartment has a private bathroom with a shower, fully equipped kitchen and free Wi-Fi. Guests can buy groceries at the local grocery store 50 meters from the apartments. Because of their very central location, numerous shops, restaurants and cafés are available in the surrounding area. The Church of Hallgrimur is located 350 m from the apartments, a tourist agency is just 50 m away and the nearest gay bar is less than 5 minutes walking distance.

      Laekur hostel
      In the hostel we have dorms for 4-8 persons with shared kitchen and bathroom facilities. The rooms are furnished with free internet, lockers, and a USB charger by each bed. The beds have linen provided and you can rent a towel in the cafe on the ground floor for 5 EUR.

      All the dorms are mixed with both genders. You can also book a whole room with 4-8 bunker beds.

      Blue Lagoon
      - a world of wonder

      Named by National Geographic as one of the 25 Wonders of the World, the Blue Lagoon is a shimmering expanse of warmth, relaxation, and rejuvenation. Its unique geothermal seawater comes from 2000 meters within the earth where sea and fresh water converge in a tectonic frontier of porous lava and searing heat. Propelled by extreme pressure, the water ascends to the earth’s surface, emerging enriched with silica, algae, and minerals: the elements that endow Blue Lagoon geothermal seawater with its radiant, healing properties.

      From its humble beginnings in the shadows of a geothermal power plant, Blue Lagoon has evolved into a world of wonder, now encompassing a hotel, a restaurant, a luxury lounge, a renowned line of skin care, a research center, in-water massage, and a wealth of spa and refreshment facilities.

      Achieving harmony with the volcanic landscape of Iceland’s Reykjanes lava plain, the lagoon and its surrounding architecture embody the unification of the man-made and the natural, and adhere to the highest principles of sustainability.

      Blue Lagoon. A wonder of the world. A world of wonder.

      Whales of Iceland
      - larger than life

      Whales of Iceland is the largest whale exhibition in Europe (and perhaps even the world), where guests can learn about the giants of the sea in a calm and modern environment. The permanent exhibition features whales like guests have never seen them before. It is truly a giant experience.

      Landsbankinn
      - leading financial institution

      Landsbankinn is a leading Icelandic financial institution. It offers a full range of financial services and is the market leader in the Icelandic financial service sector with the largest branch network.

      The present bank was established on 7 October 2008 but the history of its predecessor dates back to 1886. The bank is owned by the National Treasury of Iceland, which holds 98.2% of its share capital, and other shareholders who own 1.8%.

      Landsbankinn’s strategy is to provide comprehensive financial services that meet customer’s needs. It emphasizes providing exemplary service to customers, developing e-banking for their convenience, increasing the efficiency of support functions, modernizing its technology and ensuring effective utilization of its balance sheet.

      The bank’s vision is to be exemplary and its role is to be a trusted financial partner.

      Special emphasis is placed on promoting a performance-oriented culture in the bank. To follow up on the implementation of this strategy, the bank has defined key goals which are measured regularly to determine progress. These goals include, for example, customer satisfaction and loyalty, profitability, cost efficiency and the correlation between risk appetite and employee satisfaction.

      Landsbankinn wishes to lead the development of a sustainable society in Iceland by integrating economic, social and environmental concerns in its operations. The Bank aims to ensure that both its owners and society at large benefit from its activities.

      It intends to achieve this aim by building solid infrastructure and a strong team of 1.100 employees, by listening to its customers and by respecting and encouraging its employees to actively participate in their community. Landsbankinn was a founding member of Festa, a Centre for Corporate Social Responsibility, and is a member of the UN Global Compact.

      Landsbankinn has been a proud sponsor of the Reykjavik Pride since it was first celebrated in Iceland.

      Dohop
      - get inspired

      Dohop allows people to find the cheapest flights available with just one click. Founded in Reykjavik in 2004, it is the only Icelandic company of its kind and quickly became the go-to tool for finding cheap flights among the locals. Dohop finds the best deals among hundreds of different airlines and online travel agencies, to make sure that the user is getting the cheapest price. Dohop also offers hotel and car rental search engines, so users can make all of their travel bookings from a single website.

      Dohop‘s specialty is finding so-called “self-connect” flight options, which can save travelers money by booking a ticket through two or more different airlines. The ability to look for these self-connect option is what sets Dohop apart from its competition, as it can save people hundreds of dollars on certain routes.

      More recently, Dohop has developed a unique product called Dohop Go!, which allows users to check for the cheapest available flights from their home airport. This tool is perfect for those who are looking for travel inspiration but are not willing to overpay for their flight ticket. Dohop Go! is now available in the Dohop Flights App, both for Android and iOS, along with its traditional flight, hotel, and car search engines. “

      Macland
      - for all your Apple needs

      From starting out as a proper startup with only a good idea and the need to change things, to becoming an established company with 6 employees. Starting from scratch and expanding organically has allowed us to love our expansion and take our customers on the ride with us.

      Macland is located at Laugavegur 23 (101, Downtown Reykjavik)
      For all your Apple needs. We are here.

      Aurora Reykjavik
      - northern lights center

        Aurora Reykjavik is a Northern Lights Center situated in downtown Reykjavík at the Old Harbor next to Icelandair Hotel Marina and Vikin Maritime Museum.

        Aurora Reykjavík is Iceland’s first educational and recreational Northern Lights Center where multimedia is used to explain when, why and how the Northern Lights work, with the highlights being large HD projection of the Aurora’s. We also share myths and legends about what our ancestor thought about those mystical lights.

        The Northern Lights Center is for all ages. Children are our favorite guests and we created the exhibition in a way that children can have a look freely and parents don’t have to worry about things being broken.

        Aurora Reykjavik offers a great selection of souvenirs that are designed and made by Icelanders along with nice little coffee corner, where you can enjoy free coffee and tea while browsing through the souvenirs or just planning your next step.

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        Ísey skyr
        - once tasted never forgotten

        Our Story
        Once upon a time, 1,100 years ago in fact, Nordic settlers began arriving in Iceland. They brought with them the skills and knowledge for producing skyr. As time passed, the know-how and recipe for this nutritious food slowly faded out elsewhere in the Nordic region. Luckily, the Icelandic skyr-making tradition continued.

        For centuries, Icelandic skyr formed a cornerstone of the national diet, helping to keep people strong in living conditions that were often harsh. On family farms countrywide, it was the women who nurtured this dairy and passing on both the recipe and the original Icelandic skyr cultures from mother to daughter.

        Ísey skyr builds on this remarkable legacy. It was some of those very same women, the recipients of their mothers’ expertise, who, around 90 years ago, taught Icelandic dairy scientists the art of skyr-making. The production process is more high-tech these days, and the quality standards more rigorous. However, the basic recipe and the use of original cultures to ferment the skimmed milk remain the same. Protein rich, fat-free, creamy and delicious – Ísey skyr is as relevant to consumers now as it was all those centuries ago.
        This is our secret and you are in on it

        You can read more about Ísey skyr on our website.

        Núðluskálin
        - noodle bar

        Núðluskálin is a small gay owned and operated fusion noodle bar.

        All of our courses are individually made from fresh ingredients and therefore highly customisable.
        We offer fully Vegan versions of all courses.
        Though originally a take-away we now seat over 30 people.

        Núðluskálin is located right in the heart of Reykjavík on Skólavörðustígur 8 (street leading up to the big Church) near the junction with Laugavegur (main street).

        Seatours
        - adventure cruise

        Ferry Baldur – the gate to the West fjords
        and VikingSushi Adventure – Bird & Nature watching Tour for everyone all year around

        The “VikingSushi Adventure” is the right boat tour for travelers who are adventurous and want to experience something new – close up to the nature seafood simply doesn’t come fresher than this! The archipelago area of the Breidafjordur Bay always surprises her visitors during winter or summer with spectacular sights. Where else you get to try delicious fresh scallops and sea urchin roe straight from the ocean served with soy sauce, wasabi and ginger.

        600x400-seatours-tasting

        This old volcanic area, characterized by the typical basalt formations of the islands, is the home of countless birds. Here you will also find the strongest currents in Iceland. The VikingSushi Tour takes roughly two hours and our captain is also the tour guide.

        600x400-seatours

        The VikingSushi Tour is a true adventure through incredible nature which should not be missed by any traveler to West Iceland.

        Birds, possible to spot:
        -puffins (from the middle of April until the middle of August)
        -eider ducks
        -shags
        -kittiwakes
        -fulmars
        -white-tailed eagle

        The car ferry Baldur is the bridge to the West fjords via the island Flatey
        Ferry Baldur crosses Breidafjordur Bay daily from Stykkisholmur on the Snæfellsnes peninsula to Brjanslaekur in the north. A ferry ride considerably shortens the route between the south and mid-west of the country and the West Fjords region. It also gives you the opportunity to experience a floating restaurant.

        Take a stopover at the charming island Flatey when you are crossing the bay or go to a day tour to Flatey and back to Stykkishólmur. At Flatey are no cars allowed and between the houses of the 18th century you get the feeling of a journey back in time.

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